You may be wondering, if divorce is already costly, why spend money on divorce mediation?
“Divorce mediation helps to reduce some of the costs and minimize the emotional toll of divorce.”
The Cost of Divorce
Let’s face it – by its very nature, nothing about the divorce process comes inexpensively. Spouses starting out with one household that may have already been on a tight budget are now creating two households. That means they will need two sets of furniture, two kitchens, and two of just about everything else. Add to that legal fees, expert fees, etc. and one can begin to see just how quickly expenses can mount. Read More >>
While many people may have heard of divorce Mediators, far fewer actually understand the divorce mediator role.
What a Divorce Mediator Can Do
Mediation is a non-adversarial process for resolving Family Law disputes associated with separation, divorce, post-divorce modifications, and other family issues. Within this area of practice, divorce Mediators are those who have chosen to work specifically with couples who have decided to go through with a divorce.
Divorce Mediators are neutral individuals trained to help parties understand the legal ramifications of separation and divorce. Their job is to facilitate the process of crafting a divorce agreement that reflects each couple’s particular circumstances. This includes helping them negotiate a fair approach to handling any parental responsibilities, property divisions, and/or financial obligations. Read More >>
Divorce Mediators are valuable professional resources who assist those going through a divorce or navigating the troubled waters leading up to a possible divorce. Divorce Mediators typically offer guidance in legal conflict resolution, without the parties incurring the higher fees that typically come with obtaining a divorce through the Court system. However, it is important to consider the divorce mediator qualifications needed for your situation.
Why Work with a Divorce Mediator?
A divorce mediator is a neutral, trained individual whose job is to help parties understand the laws applicable to divorce and separation, and assist them in creating a customized divorce agreement that works for their particular circumstances. Read More >>
Divorce mediation is a viable option that should be strongly considered for couples contemplating or navigating a divorce. Unfortunately, many couples do not understand what divorce mediation entails, or why it is in their best interest to consider it.
What Divorce Mediation Is – and Is Not
The role of a divorce mediator is to serve as a neutral facilitator of the decision-making process between a divorcing couple. Those with a background in law are not able to represent clients during the mediation process, since they are hired by and work with the couple jointly rather than with just one spouse. Thus, mediation is not marital counseling or legal representation. Read More >>
While some believe that trial separations are mandatory before a divorce can be legalized, the truth is that they are not actually required, though they can be very beneficial.
Prior to choosing divorce, many couples engage in a trial separation period. (This applies to both married couples and those who have been living together in a long-term commitment.)
Types of Trial Separations
Many separations are initiated informally when one or both parties decide to live apart from each other, either for a specified length of time or indefinitely. During this period, the couple figures out how to divvy up financial obligations and parenting responsibilities, if children are involved. Some couples actually go on in this state of informal separation for many years, with no inclination to move towards a legal divorce. Read More >>
I spend a good part of my professional life working in Collaborative teams. By bringing to the table the opinions of other professionals such as mental health workers, financial planners, accountants, and/or real estate agents, we are able to come up with creative solutions for clients as they negotiate the terms of their divorce.
Sometimes the value of this kind of team approach is best understood in ordinary, everyday instances.
This spring I was part of what has become an annual “women’s weekend”. A number of women, some of whom I have known for a long time and others whom I have met through this group, get together and spend a relaxing weekend at a large rental home in Plymouth across the street from the ocean. Read More >>
Divorce and retirement assets can be very challenging. When determining an equitable division of retirement assets in a divorce context, it is generally best to start by looking at where the couple is in the life cycle. In other words, how close are they to retirement? Some may already be in payout status, while others may be much younger and only beginning to contribute to a 401(k). This factor will make a significant difference in deciding how to equitably divide any assets.
Retirement assets are typically set up in either one spouse’s name or the other. That does not mean that the spouse retains sole ownership rights, however. In most cases, such assets are still considered to be marital property, particularly if funds accrued primarily during marriage. Read More >>